Don't know what to do...

[MetalSian]

My DP just left =/.
Don't know what I am supposed to do =[.
Crying just seems about right at the moment.

OK, but it's NOT your fault and if ANYONE even so much as DARES to say that to you, you have my full permission to snap back at them "Well THAT'S support for you!!"

You have not done this, you trusted someone, he was unworthy of that trust, how is that YOUR fault? He is an eejit, really!

Please stop blaming yourself, it's not right and it's so destructive.

love, please don't cut off your nose to spite your face

you would seriously consider excusing this sort of behaviour so that nobody gets to say "I told you so" ?

more fool, you

The fact that he never sees his other child tells you a lot.

get some support from people who care about you and consider what YOU want to happen/do next.

is the mother of his forgotten child "mad" "needy" or "unhinged" by any chance ?

They were only together for a year.
And I have never spoken to her so I wouldn't know.

I am waiting to see if he is going to bother contacting me.
He either has a lot of leg work to do to make things better, if not that is it.

I am determined for the minute even though this will probably disappear within half an hour.