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my husband seems to thinks that the grass is greener

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mummyworries · 12/06/2011 07:31

help!!! i have been married for 2 yrs and together 6.got two little girls one who is 5 and the other 4 months. my husband just seems to think there is something better somewhere else flirting with other women online and people at work. i hate it , makes me feel like shit! im not sure whether its me or not whether im reading to much in to it i dont know anymore! lastest example, he was talking to a girl on facebook , who he knows from work and they were just chatting and she is down in the dumps as she has just spilt from her fella. he was trying to cheer her up and then he said i have to go im trying to watch this porn and the sun is shining through the window. she replied porn......you have sex on tap. he put 'sex on tap' she said yes your wife or arent u gettin any? he said there arent enough hours in the day!!!that was it really but i feel so fucking low and not sure if he would give a fuck if i spoke to other men on her but i just wanna hurt him back to be honest!!! i just dont know anymore

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lookingfoxy · 12/06/2011 08:25

Totally inappropriate conversation to have with a female work colleague.
Totally disrespectful to YOU even discussing any type of sexual activity (porn or inferring to your own sex life) with anyone, never mind a female work colleague.
Not showing any respect for you as a couple or your family by talking to others like this.
It sounds like with all the flirting he's doing, he is fishing for something to happen with someone until someone bites back. Sorry, just my opinion.

ellisbell · 12/06/2011 08:29

have you told him it upsets you? It is the sort of thing childish men say to create an image, it doesn't necessarily mean more than that. For you to respond in the same way would be just as childish.

squeakytoy · 12/06/2011 08:54

he was trying to cheer her up and then he said i have to go im trying to watch this porn

eughh... what a charmer...

Sorry (and I am not wholly against porn at all) but some things really should be kept to yourself..... publically telling some unrelated woman that he is watching porn is very icky and makes him look like a bit of a prat.

It doesnt sound like flirting, just the behaviour of a pillock.

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