Does it matter if your dh doesn't understand something about you?

[TheOriginalFAB]

And is it worth a row if he doesn't want something you do?

My dh can' t understand why I would want sex after certain things happening and has never wanted comfort sex. I have come away from him upstairs and just don't like him very much at the moment.

I doubt very much that couples understand each and everything about the other. But good communication can help iron out difference of opinions etc....

I did try and explain why I feel the way I do but he didn't seem very receptive.

Perhaps let things calm down? Some time out for just now and try and broach the subject later. Or you could write a letter. Stupid I know but it's sometimes what I do especially if I'm so frustrated I can't explain myself very well at the time. And always sign it with a few kisses!!!

Had an awful morning with some bad news and now this. I feel like going for a very very long drive.

Actually, for me, going for a drive with my favourite tunes blasting is a real tonic!

Sorry that you had bad news. Hope you're ok.