Naughty but nice!! :)

[Paula1975]

To cut a long story short, I split from from XH 3 years ago. I was always rather submissive in the relationship and have had a few failed attempts at dating :( My good friend passed on the details of a professional companion that she had met on a few occasions. She is a busy professional and simply doesn't have time for a relationship. Well after two weeks of talking myself out of it, I finally contacted him and met him - just a meal and the theatre but it was very liberating to say the least. He was a perfect gent and it's nice to be 'in charge' for once!! :) Just thought I'd share my story - who says us Mums can't have fun!! ;)

Nice to be able to afford to pay people to spend time with "us Mums". Some of us are more in the boat of considering whether to hire ourselves out for a bit of extra cash.

Just wondering, though, how it can be "liberating" to hire a gentleman escort for a theatre trip. Liberation to me would mean not needing to be escorted by a man. (Or, for that matter, a woman.) Thus you can be " 'in charge' for once" and save money.

Also wondering where the "naughty" bit comes in. Just a meal and the theatre is, er, not very naughty in most people's scheme of things.

However, as I suspect the OP will turn out to be an advertisement, I will probably end up reporting my own post so

Anniegetyourgun - I work hard for my money so it was liberating to spend it in such a way - and much deserved. As for the 'naughty' bit, what goes on in my private life is not for this forum. We all have our own opinions/views on what is liberating or not. I appreciate your opinion. Thats why I posted on here in the first place.

"I appreciate your opinion. Thats why I posted on here in the first place" - it sounds to me like you're looking for material for an article

Call me suspicious but you're first time poster and the wording of your OP just doesn't sound genuine.

I've been a long time lurker on the forum and do love some of the 'stories' posted on here - I thought it was my turn to provide one :) I think I will call you suspicious :) I wasn't too hot at English when I was at school, let alone having it as a career.

I thought not being too hot at English was a prerequisite for a career in journalism.

So you hired a prostitute? and?

My goodness - I didn't come on here for a character assassination. I haven't revealed anything highly personal - I wanted fellow forum members opinions on the use of companions!! If you want to lower the tone then do it somewhere else.

Lower the tone? Of Mumsnet? Clearly you've never lurked on a Friday night.

Ha ha - you are right there Annie - I work til 10pm on a friday so you are right to presume that. And atyourcervix, for someone who lists her hobbies as 'sleeping' and What you do 'as little as possible' - so inspiring, can't wait for your next words of wisdom!!

Sleeping is legal last time I checked.

I don't think kerb crawling is.

Correct DotRotten - what has kerb crawling got to do with this subject? A prostitute is someone who offers their body for sexual services - has someone mentioned they had sex with a prostitute on here?

Well either it wasn't naughty or it wasn't "just a meal and the theatre". Make your mind up. I still maintain that it isn't liberating to need a man's company, let alone pay for it, but if it makes you happy and gives employment in these straitened times I'd be the last one to stop you.

Playing hard-work bingo isn't going to endear you to the majority round here either, just thought I should mention. Yes, before you challenge that statement, I am the majority, me, personally.

Wrong choice of topic title then - hard work bingo? Enlighten me?

yawns............

As for the 'naughty' bit, what goes on in my private life is not for this forum.

So you fucked him then?

You hired a man.

I'll bet a pound to a penny he provides "extras".

As Annie says, what's liberating about needing a man? Do you live in the 19th Century?

Hard working bingo; "I work 26 hours a day and pay my taxes and don't have enough money left for a lump of coal, let alone a flat-screen TV." You get the idea.

I should probably have called it trumps.

Got it DotRotten - not in my case - just the 12 hours a day, I earn a very large wage and have hired a non-sexual companion. Simple.

So, not naughty then.

Oh for gods sake, I can't believe the bitching on this thread.

OP - good for you, if it gave you a confidence boost, which it obviously did and helps you regain your mojo then go for it!

Annie - I said before - wrong choice of word in the title - but in my opinion it was rather 'naughty'. But that's me - if you want rude content then take yourself to other threads. I just wanted a discussion on the subject - not myself!!

I earn a very large wage and have hired a non-sexual companion.

Thanks lookingfoxy - I agree. It was a big confidence boost. Just wanted to share it.