I am friends with a man who i'll call Dave. Known him for over 10 years now. When we originally met all those years ago we were nothing more than a casual fling, it was purely sex and a nice friendship. I then got in a serious relationship with someone and Dave and I lost contact until a year ago when we bumped into each other and since then have met up many times. I think i'm falling in love with him, but I don't know why as he has absolutely nothing going for him, but he dominates my thoughts almost every minute of the day and i'm willing for my phone to beep which means he will've texted me, but he is a complete and utter wnker, yet I can't get him out of my head.
Ok, the reasons he is no good is; every woman he sees on tv, he feels the need to tell me she's pretty or she's good a good figure. He doesn't work - is on the sick but hmm, I think he's capable of working. He spits out in public which I find digustingly atrocious with any human being doing that. He isn't good at sex. He talks about his ex a whole lot and how she ruined his life, which she did, but..., he uses racially offensive language which I despise as my DS2 is mixed race and said that a black girl on tv looked like a monkey, He is seeing a psychiatrist for his depression, he listens to sh!t music, has no ambition and he rarely leaves the house apart from meeting women from the internet. I really don't know what I see in him at all, but he won't leave my mind and I have feelings for him. What can I do? :(