do you and yor dh/dp borrow/take each other's things without asking?

[juicychops]

i don't mean big expensive things like the car etc, i mean like books, dvds, cds etc.

If they are all kept together but you know which ones are yours and which are not, do you always ask, or do you just take/borrow without mentioning it?

i feel like im being petty but its irrationally bugging me. ive had cds go missing and dvds. not any that i paprticularly listen to much, but i know that they are mine and i know dp has 'borrowed' them without asking. then i dont get them back for ages and ages.

like i say, they are dvds and cds i rarely listen to, but its the fact that i haven't seen them for ages.

i know they would be either at his mum and dad's where he lives, or in his car

im i just being stupid and petty?

If the kids take your stuff without asking and never return it that isn't borrowing it's stealing. if you borrow something you ask the person first and you return it. Your boyfriend and his kids just help themselves to your stuff. Do they think you are filthy rich or something?