I've posted about this before. House/puppy sitting for DPs grandparents while they're away. His cousin just made us feel unwanted and pushed her way in and taken over everything. She live 2 mins up the road from their grandparents and we live 2 hours so we couldn't just pop down. For the record, we were asked to stay, not her. She butted in and tried to push us out and we only came in the end because their grandparents really wanted us to.
She has called me stupid, told us we don't know what we are doing and all sorts of crap. She has told us one thing to do with the pups, her mum has
Up until Tue her and her dp were staying in the same house in their said another, spoke to their Grandma on phone and she had in no way suggested they change their diet before they get back (she'd even spoke to me the day they left about weaning the puppies off the milk).
Her and her dp were sleeping in her grandparents bed and sheets - we actually heard some 'noises' one night (not related but does anybody else find it a bit odd?) We tolerated it over the weekend and told ourselves it'd be easier in the week when they'd be at work. She mysteriously gets Monday off (her phone work me up at 8am and I heard he answer it but nothing else) she told us she missed a phonecall from work and said she was meant to be in so don't bother coming in til today. When she told us this, we said we might as well go as she's just doing everything. She said fine, ok.
An hour later we get a call from their aunt who we are both really close to. "Why are you leaving? She's freaking out now she's got to do it on her own. bla bla" When dp spoke to her she was like oh I didn't realise it was so hard and i'm so tired and fragile and I cant cope. We left her for the day but came back that night and they've stayed home since.
But this is really winding me up now
Me and dp like to unwind and get ready for bed and relax quite early (around 8ish since we've been getting up at 5/6am this week). Now I understand we are in somebody else's house, but Is it acceptable to BARGE IN unannounced every night at 8-11pm? There's two doors, one key. They have a key so even when we lock the doors and leave the key in one, they can unlock the other and come in.
Fair enough, they do this all the time to each other (one street, grandparents, cousin & aunt, other aunt). Barge in no consideration if they are in the shower or on the loo or having intimate moments. I find it so embarrassing just having them walk in on us with me in my pjs and dp in shorts, under a blanket watching a film and they come in wake pups up who we've spent ages feeding, weighing and putting to sleep. They make a cuppa, sit and tell us all about their day, bla bla. We tried hinting and saying "We're a bit tired as we got up at 5 today, you should've come earlier so we could've had a proper chat." (It's just the cousin I hate, the rest I can get along with in small doses).
We are leaving tomorrow, so there's not much worth doing now. It'd start a huge argument and I don't want that (again).
But AIBU to be annoyed at this? WWY have done?
PS -Sorry for the essay! Needed to vent.