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does he like me?

5 replies

drunkandconfused · 03/06/2011 02:31

Right I have had a few drinks but thats what gave me the courage. I told a guy that I liked him, He's a friend, but thought he was interested too. He then said I was a drunken bum and for me not to be silly. I then said that I hadnt said anything I wouldnt say sober, but if he wasnt interested to tell me to shut up, and there would be no hard feelings. he texted back telling me to go to bed, but put kisses at the end of the text which he doesnt normally.

he's not interested is he?

OP posts:
shushpenfold · 03/06/2011 03:40

I'd have said no. Judge it on your next conversation (sober!!)

shushpenfold · 03/06/2011 03:41

..meant to put a BUT in the middle there!

curtaincall · 03/06/2011 05:04

If he was remotely interested, he'd have let you know at the time. The kisses were to make you feel ok as he might well be embarrassed and still wants to be friends. I've been there.

janajos · 03/06/2011 08:30

Or he is a gentleman who doesn't want to take advantage of a 'drunken bum'. As shushpenfold says, wait and see when you are sober.

buzzsore · 03/06/2011 08:40

I'd wait and see. If he hasn't been thinking of you in 'that' way, he'll probably think about it now and maybe he'll enjoy those thoughts. If he was already interested, he may have thought while you were drunk it wasn't the best time to respond. If he's not interested at all, he's flattered and still likes you as a friend.

You've lost nothing (cos he replied in a nice way) and possibly could still gain from it.

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