Doctor thinks I may have had a Chemical Pregnancy and miscarried. Do I tell Ex P?

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Thats basically it really. Found out my ex p had been lying to me about his drinking and we have split up. I went to the doctor today because I had been bleeding more then usual and he took some blood. I feel sad and very confused about how I feel since I didn't know I was even pregnant and was not planning on another baby however I would have kept it if I hadn't of miscarried. Do I tell ex P or is that cruel? I just don't know :(

Well you haven't had the results of the blood test yet so there's nothing to tell.

Are you looking for excuses to contact your ex? You will honestly get over the break-up more quickly and spare yourself pain if you have nothing to do with him.

Thats exactly it Madame I don't want to give him an excuse to go on a bender. I know he would be genuinely upset and as angry as I am with him would not wish that on him.

Lizza I wondered if I should ask him out of respect as it would have been his child as well. I don't need an excuse to contact him as he is the father of my ds.

Well all you know at the moment is that you have been bleeding more heavily than usual. You don't know the cause. If you get some more solid information from the blood test then you could think about whether to tell him or not.