Can anyone help me on what i can or should do to make things better - there are are a few factors that has contributed to things being so bad. sorry if i ramble on...
DH got made redundant last year, he got another job after only 6 weeks out of work but he finds his current job very stressful and is usually quite negative about it.
His mum is very ill with cancer, she has had it for the last 4 years but has been bed bound over the last 6 months which is just awful, we amke sure that we go over and see her and his dad frequently.
We do not get on with our neighbours and live in a semi and so he is constantly up tight about our 3 DC's kids making too much noise as we have had problems from our neighbours about that in the past. We never entertain anymore as he cannot relax in case it upsets out neighbours! we currently have our house on the market, i am desperate to move...
Then our youngest Dc, DD1 (4 years) has got learning difficulties, school and the paediatrician think that she is poss on the autism spectrum.... but I cannot talk to him about this in case it tips him over the edge.
thank you for reading this far (if you have!) it helps to just put it down on paper. TIA