Bit of background:
Been with partner 8 years, we have a boy of 7. We both work.
Struggling at the moment. Big issue is our debt problems which we are working to solve but its a long hard route and its really causing issues and hardship.
We both work full time but I do all the housework cooking etc as DP says he has a physically demanding job (true) so it too tired. I feel that if he lived on his own he would have to do it anyway and its just an excuse. This is a major cause of resentment. He often spends every evening in front of the telly that drives me mad.
Our son (7) is gorgeous and a delight, I worry about the effect on him of us splitting up (for info I have a son of 18 as well and I split from his Dad when he was 5 and didnt want to ever do that to a child again).
My DP does love me and would never cheat on me, he would like to spend all his time with me, whereas I like a bit of time to myself. His main problem is relying on me to do everything.
So crux time, I am due to go to my sisters this eve, DP not happy and said that if I go we have to seriously talk about splitting up. I dont know whether to be ok or sad about this. At the moment I intend going.
Not sure why I have written all this down but cannot get my head around what I really want to do at the moment,