anniversary tomorrow what do i do to mark it?

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we have been together 20 yrs tomorrow married 16 yrs .

2 dc good man.
we lost each other sexually for a while and have this year re connected.

a few difficult times but nothing major.

How would you mark tomorrow? I want to show him how much i love him.We have no help with dc so no extrnal childcare.We are both at work tomorrow but i dont want it to just pass by.

Tell him. Plus lots of kisses and cuddles (and more!)

Go for a meal with kids in tow if no childcare.

Pick up a littel something he would love - a book maybe - on the way home.

ANd congrats!

Note in his sandwich box. Go to bed an hour earlier and massage each other.
Nice card.
Find a babysitter.

aww the note is a fab idea

Wrote him a note and tell him how you feel, pick some thing up that he would like - nice dinner and early to bed :)

may have to wake him early hes a morning type of guy if you know what i mean ;)

sorry it reads a bit funy married 16yr tomorrow, been together 20 in total

I meant massage not sex- you clearly have never had sexul therapy!:)

sexual obvs

what is sexual therapy, your right i never had it

where you see a therapist as having no/shit sex. They start by saying you can't have sex and have to 'rediscover' each other. Usually just stroking and massage at first. Watched Channel 4 documentary and read Pamela Connelly columns- not had it either!!

You CAN have sex of course as its anniversary- just the massage thing is intimate and loving, and less obvious than a damn good anniversary shagarooney.