I have to confess, I have developed a raging crush on a colleague of mine. We work very closely together, for long hours and we are often asked to attend marketing functions together which involve a lot of drinking and/or spending time away from home. He's more senior that me, but we have a working relationship that places us more as equals working as a team. I have been married to my husband for 18 months and we're very happy. To complicate matters further, my husband works at the same organisation as me and the colleague.
A few months ago, I thought it had all blown over, but the other night I had one of those dreams about him and it brought it all flooding back.
Tell me this is just a silly phase, I am not the only one this happens to and it will all blow over after a while? To be clear, the colleague has done absolutely nothing to encourage my affections other than being a generally nice guy. He has two kids and a wife he obviously adores. I have no intention of making a fool of myself or hurting my husband by acting on any of this, but it's getting quite distracting.