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I am rubbish with men - this means they arent really interested doesnt it?

5 replies

phoneaway · 20/05/2011 09:42

Ive been talking with two men.

Man 1 i 'met' online dating back in feb, we chatted a bit online, he asked for my number and then never called. i thought nothing of it. The other week he saw me online and we had a natter and he asked me out again. We swapped numbers again, swapped a few texts. Then nothing bar random midnight texts asking if im asleep. He saw me online monday and asked me out again, and i said that i was free next week.. then he said he had to go and would text me later... but no text and heard nothing since.

Timewaster? ( i think so)

Man 2 - another online one. Asked me out, got sulky when i was busy last weekend and couldnt see him. Invited himself round mine, to which i declinded and he told me i was silly. I had said i was free this weekend... and you know what, hes not asked if i want to do anything and his texts have also dried up.

Timewaster and possibly crazy? ( i think so)

OP posts:
schobe · 20/05/2011 09:45

Do you really need to ask?

Please block them. They both sound absolute wasters.

Zanette · 20/05/2011 17:58

Don't waste your time thinking or worrying about these men. There are good men out there on the net, unfortunately you have to wade through the losers!

atswimtwolengths · 20/05/2011 19:01

OP, Google an organisation called Nexus - they seem pretty good - better than doing online dating with all this sweetshop mentality the men have.

PaigeTurner · 20/05/2011 19:06

The first one sounds like he's just checking to see you're still interested for an ego-boost, the second one sounds like he's after a quick shag.

Move along!

MakeYerOwnDamnDinner · 20/05/2011 19:26

I have a Man 1 too - almost exactly the same scenario. My opinion is that these men are a bit interested but not interested enough to make a concrete date and stick to it.

I think they're best ignored really otherwise their behaviour can become really frustrating. Of course the other side to that is that once they think they've lost your interest they usually then start to pursue you again.

Man 2 just sounds like your average garden variety wanker. Getting sulky because you were too busy to see him? I don't think so - NEXT!

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