i thing i am having a wobble

[Sillyflower]

hello.

wobble alert.

I am really down about everything this week. Its boring. I found out ex has been out with OW again. When I asked him he is still lying.....

I am wondering at what point I become indifferent. He is a free man after all. Why should I give a shit what he does?

I am quite angry actually....about all the lying and the affair.... it is really bothering me.

I am worried that I am in denial and still have feelings for ex.

He is being generally nice although sometimes horrible and angry. We are making an effort as dc involved. I am just finding it all weird. I suspect I am not accepting that he has moved on already as I do not want to believe it really.
Or something along those lines.

Its all a bit scary right now. I dont actually want to get back together with him. I just don't like the idea of him being with someone else so quickly.

I want him to be lonely and stuck at home - like me!

Is this normal?

I am generally ok and coping. i just feel sad today and was a bit down yesterday too......

Boo Hoo.

I really feel for you. When did you split up?

Try to limit contact, try to get someone to liaise on your behalf or by emailing arrangements.

Try to disengage, keep yourself busy, and remind yourself that he is a cheat and that you deserve better.

Keep talking to us.

Affair discovered in Jan. Dumped a couple of months later.......I am guessing it was doomed as OW was alway there in the background.

So its not been long really. TBH you probabaly still will have feelings for your ex- its still very raw and it was his, not your actions that ended things.

I think its quite a lot to deal with when you realise he is still with ow- its the final nail in the coffin really. It feels awful she has now 'replaced' you in your former life.

Your feelings are normal- but its how to get past them...

The title is supposed to say I think I am having a wobble.....not thing

Oh dear