yet another row:(

[onelastchance]

this time as h didn't answer when i spoke to him, despite fact he'd heard exactly what i'd said. Then claimed he he didn't hear as was concentrating on the tv.
his lack of acknowleging me when i speak has been brought up on loads of occasions, he knows how much i hate it - yes a simple, yes/no would be enough.
yet again to bed angry with eachother and looks like another crp weekend looming

onelast I have seen you post so many times on here now about how unhappy you are. What are you going to do about it? Your DH is obviously making you miserable.

Sorry, just read that back and it sounds unsympathetic. I don't mean to be, it's just that it isn't getting any better is it?

no, no better :( we're gong on holiday in acouple of weeks too:(

Can you not tell him that this holiday decides whether you split or not as you cannot continue to live as you are.

You deserve happiness, you deserve to smile.

i can tell him that, yes. It won't make any difference though

he'll just tell me i make myself miserable - heard it all before :(

so sad, just sittin here crying and crying - and feeling so helpless

I'm going to give you one piece of advice. You can choose to take it or leave it.

Do an advanced search on your current user name. Have a look at the stuff you've been posting for almost a year now.

Have a look, revisit those threads, and see if you feel as if anything has changed.

Try and remember that this life is your only one. No second chances, no going back and rubbing it out and starting again. This is it.

You've wasted a year (as this username) are you prepared to waste another one?

Do you have children onelastchance? If so would your partner consider going to counselling? If not, could you envisage a separation or temporary separation so that you could both consider whether you are happier apart than together? My dh often doesn't acknowledge things I have said. Mainly because he is on the computer all evening every evening. Now I have started doing the same. All very sad so I do connect with what you are saying.

onelastchance I am wondering what you would like for yourself. Do you want to be with him for life whatever his attitude to you is? It's not right that you should be so unhappy all the time.

One last chance? How many last chances have you actually had, as a couple, to be happy together. As Dame Shirley says, you only get one life. It seems sad to waste it being unhappy.

Dh and I finally split last September, I'm on my own bringin up 3 DC under 5...and I love it! I can be myself in my own home, don't have to second guess his moods and try to control DC and myself to avoid an argument. I would rather be on my own for the rest of my life than live in that atmosphere again.

i suppose i'm not this unhappy all the time - soem time worse than others>
We'v tried counselling sevetal times - make little or no difference> even slpit for q while, i missed him.
still barely talking. he did ask me a minite ago if i wanted anything from shops or anything to eat

I agree with fabby. Holiday = last chance.