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So if a new guy tells you this....how would you feel????

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OhToBeFree · 13/05/2011 10:23

OK so getting to know a new guy. All ok but he's going through some issues with his ex so we're taking things slowly.

Last night he tells me that he once dressed up as a woman to fulfil a fantasy his ex had.....

I really don't know how to feel about it...........I find it a bit Confused

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JessicaDrew · 13/05/2011 11:42

well said Gay

Mamaz0n · 13/05/2011 11:44

there are a lot of cross dressing type threads today arent there.

Gay40 · 13/05/2011 11:46

I know. I think I'll go and put a tux on for work.

Thomas1969 · 13/05/2011 11:47

madonnawhore: you're rite, it does seem like im a know it all so sorry for that. But i've heard of too many similar cases. Try this test - ask him lots of questions about woman's dress sizes, shoes etc. If it was his x's idea he will know as much as i do about how women dress which is NOTHING. Its my bet though he will not only know what a size 24 is but will argue with you about what accessories go with that sexy red dress. Go on - tell me im wrong!

JessicaDrew · 13/05/2011 11:52

Mamaz
perhaps is a TG takeover bid, maybe MN need a new forum section!!!

BluddyMoFo · 13/05/2011 11:53

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madonnawhore · 13/05/2011 11:55

Well from the OP we know that at the least, he isn't averse to cross dressing by way of experimentation in order to satisfy a partner, which makes him sound like he's probably very fun in bed.

Lucky OP.

JessicaDrew · 13/05/2011 11:57

oh so he was really saying "what ever fantasy you have, he will be happy to go along with" in response to her asking if any particular type of lingerie turned him on??

lou33 · 13/05/2011 12:00

I used to date a guy who used to like putting on my stockings and thongs on when we had sex.

shirl2010 · 13/05/2011 12:02

you know when youve split with someone and you cant stop talking about them because theyre on your mind all the time ... sounds like this for him ... good or bad he sounds consumed. dont think theres anything sexual in it hes just sharing and feels he can with you ... but has he moved on from her?

Thomas1969 · 13/05/2011 12:09

You're all being too sympathetic. What he's up to is testing the water and not being straight. If he just came out and said Honey, im into frocks and sheer stockings id have much more time for him.

Gay40 · 13/05/2011 15:21

Thomas....I fear you know nowt.

ChippingIn · 13/05/2011 15:26

Bloody hell - it was a throw away comment, that's all.

AKissIsNotAContract · 13/05/2011 15:52

I think I'd be more concerned that his ex tried to knife him. You overlooked that and are worried about a slightly un-vanilla sexual history?

FreudianSlipper · 13/05/2011 15:59

sounds like he is testing the water

if that is your kind of thing well then great, if a big no no then best to let him know that

i got into bed once to find an ex wearing my brand new silk panties i was so shocked. we ended soon after subject was never spoken about but tbh its a turn off for me. sadly i had to throw away the panties too :( that was more upsetting

BluddyMoFo · 13/05/2011 17:11

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Thomas1969 · 13/05/2011 18:03

Thanks Gay40. You may be right but it aint about me.

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