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Thinking of living with boyfriend

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MsBuzz · 11/05/2011 14:24

Boyfriend has asked me to live with him in his house. He has two children (late teens) who stay with him 2 nights a week. I have a house (which I would let or sell) and my children have left home.
Any general advice about the highs and lows and what to consider would be appreciated.

OP posts:
LucretiaInShadows · 11/05/2011 15:26

I'm interested in the replies; my boyfriend's moving into my house soon. I'm equally excited and nervous. Similar feeling to when I got the job I'd spent years training for, got into my first choice uni, that sort of thing - I know it's all good but it's a slightly scary change.

Anyway, my happily-married brother's advice was that we will spend parts of the first six months hating each other; that's normal and everyone does! We'll see.

All the best, MsBuzz!

lightsandshapes · 11/05/2011 17:28

don't sell your house - let it out, then you always have your own security and have a place to go to should you need it (learned the hard way)

Only other thing I'd say is if you live with someone, and don't marry them money and ownership issues get confusing (from experience!)

Think long and hard about it ;)

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