Drunken husbands making show of themselves. How annoyed do you get?

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Do you get pissed of when your partners get absolutely legless and stagger home and then piss on the bedroom floor? Just wondering because my (not so D)H has got rotten drunk twice in the past couple of months, somehow managed to get home and called in sick the next day (staying in bed all day). Last night he started to urinate on the bedroom floor until I politely reminded him that the toilet was the more normal place for that. I can't bring myself to speak to him today cos it's just stupid & irresponsible (we have two small children).

Weeing on the floor

Vile

I hope he cleaned it up

And missing work

Is this out of the ordinary for him?

Either way, if this was my DH words would be being had

Every day, I'm so thankful my husband, bar a couple of beers at New Year, doesn't drink at all.

Having said that, I have, in the past, been staggeringly drunk many many many times. Far more than my share.

And never, ever pissed on the floor.

Even in my heavy drinking days, I'd have never put up with that.

Calling into work, too?

This guy sounds like an alkie.

I'd be livid, he should listen to you and never drink himself into such a state again. Good luck

If my husband did that I certainly would get pissed off. But he hasn't. Ever. This is not normal behaviour, OP. Your DH has a problem. You need to confront him about it.

Oh thank god! You know when you start to think you are out of order but know really you are not. I too have drunk my share in the past, but with kids the goalposts change don't they? You are just on call and can't afford to get so out of it. I feel embarassed for him tbh. He doesn't drink normally, but when he does, it's a real binge. God, I'm angry again now!

Pissing on the bedroom floor is unacceptable. Getting drunk every once in a while is not but if he's having to miss work regularly than that is.

I get drunk on occasion

But never to the point of what you describe

Hangovers and children are brutal

Your DH needs to stop bingeing

My husband doesn't ever piss on the floor - and he gets stinking drunk. (whole other story!) I'd hit the bloody roof if he did. Not on. At all.

All he does when pissed is talk shit at you for hours.

Note - AT you. Not to you. AT you.

He does not require conversation, just an audience.

That's annoying enough!

So annoyed I said I woudl leave him. That was a LONG time ago

He hasnt done it since

Mine pissed on the floor several times

Came home with his face bashed in and had to take a week off work to recover

Almost lost his job twice

Made several holes in our walls throwing things

Burned cigarette holes in the carpet

Punched my dad in the face

Amongst other things

Divorce due through in a couple of weeks

I had a BF who was like that. Came in from a stag night and was so drunk he pissed in the wardrobe thinking it was the toilet (he was THAT drunk). Lucky there wasn't any clothes in it at the time, but he was puking the next morning, so I refused to clean it up and when he was looking for sympathy, I told him it was in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.

'when he was looking for sympathy, I told him it was in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.'

GENIUS! I'm saving this one for future use! :o

Do you think so Expat. I've said that line so many times it's ridiculous. Must think up another one for you . Cogs aren't clunking just yet, they need a bit of oiling to get going AKA

XH, of whom I rarely speak well, got so drunk once that he lay down on the floor for what seemed like excellent reasons at the time, and then couldn't get up again. However, even in that state he never pissed on the floor. (In the garden quite a few times, even sober, but that's another gripe for another time.) It's definitely one of those zero tolerance things.

My DH has pissed on the landing, on the bathroom floor, in the kids toy box and went to piss in my daughters clothes drawers but he was caught. He even tried getting out the front door (naked) in the early hours trying to find a toilet luckily for him the chain was on....

Needless to say he has been banned from getting pissed which he is fine with as he only drinks 2-3 times a year if that

Tough one. It's only twice in a few months, he's hardly a raging alcoholic but he does seem to have bad drunk habits. I don't mind in the slightest DP coming home trashed - he doesn't do it often but I certainly do and then demand that at 3am he makes me food (which he always does). He was sick on Saturday night which happens maybe once a year but to be honest I find it quite sweet, he was so embarrassed and he's so utterly perfect in every way (in my eyes) that it's quite nice to see him falter. I spent the next day tending to his hangover and then he took me for dinner, all lovely :)

Ugh
I was with an alcoholic for years and even he never pissed on the floor (about the only vile thing he didn't do though tbh!)
Sounds like your DH doesn't know when to stop once he starts and he really shouldn't be calling in sick with a hangover.
Next time he goes out tell him you won't let him in if he's in that state again.

my ex used to piss on the floor, and in the kids bedrooms, waking them up, and on washing basket full of ironed clothes, and on dd's pram............hence him being my ex

oh, please excuse the excessive bold-age!!