had an awful eve last night and now h taken ds out for the morning.
it was ds's 5th birthday week before last and i'd made a huge maoutn of effort to arrnage parties for friends and family, cake, etc. on ds;s birthday, H said ds would be getting me something to say thank you for all my effort. There was lots of stuff to do beofre people came round last week so said i'd rather he helped get house straight than go out and buy present then.
This weekend, still no present - ds said something to h about it, and i said not much point now as moment had passed - h agreed - which realy for him meant he'd forgotten all about it and i'd given him a get out excuse. he got very stroppy and said he didnt want dinner with me later - alway have special dinner together on sat eve.
later i asked him why he hadnt told me he wasn't going ot bother geting anything as i didn't want him going out last weekend when so much to do, he said basically that as i sid not to get anything last weekend , that 's when he was planning to go so now too late. Tbh i'm not fussed about the actual present at all - it's his stupied excuses and empty words.
He then told me i'd ruined the weekend, etc, etc
Ended up with me telling him how crap things were (more like sharing a house, than a marriage - which it is) and me having dinner on my own and then going to bed.
He came in this morning apologising for being grumpy trying to act like nothing had happened...as usual.
What now?