Should i leave this man?

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we are married just for a year and few months now, am expecting a baby very soon, bt my hb have been behaving strange even before i got pregnant.
I am over seventh months pregnant and over this period i have had sex with him in two occassions, and this two occasion it wasn't like him - it was like two stranger.

i know he is cheating on me, i have seen text messages, email, pictures, appointments with some of the ladies involved etc to justify what am saying. bt when i confront him he denials all.
i must be mad saying this bt i love this man, bt is sad he dosent feel the same for me.

when ever i want us to talk about our relationship where it all went wrong, it turns to be a big arguement between us and after that he will start to make a joke of it with his brothers and friends. he hates my mum and all my familes, he dont want anything to do with them.
I am been torn apart emmotionally and physically, i suppose to be happy bt an not, always sad. All i need is an advice on what to do

I have just one word for you

yes

I am very sorry

Why would you stay? Are you waiting for him to leave you? Could you manage alone with a baby on the way? Congratulations on the baby,they are a blessing.

Exactly how many red flags can we get in 3 paragraphs?

You say ladies and appointments - is he seeing prostitutes?

There is not a reason on earth to stay with him. Thank your lucky stars at least that he is not having sex with you that much, at least you ought not to be exposed to too many nasty diseases.

As you are PG though, you need to tell your midwife and get tested asap. Ideally slam his dick in a door, but if that is not an option, don't sleep with him again until he has been tested, is clear. Better yet, do what you know you need to do, bin him and move on, don't let him anywhere near you.

I'm so sorry for you.

well, you can either stay with a man who is cheating on you and won't discuss the relationship or you can leave.

If you stay, then you stay knowing that he is cheating and that by staying you have accepted that.

If you go then you go it alone, which is scary of course, but many women do it and do it well.

is it better to be in a 'relationship' with a man who doesn't care about you ?

You don't need him to admit anything. you know what you saw.

Do you want to stay with a man who cheats on you, who hates your relatives (next step - isolate you from them) and who doesn't care how you feel?

oh, and you need to get tested for STDs right now. There are infections that can transfer to the baby in the birth canal and cause very serious problems for them. click here

I can't see any reason why you would stay, unless you hate yourself and believe you should suffer.

He doesn't respect you but you should respect yourself. Going it alone can be scary but being cheated on repeatedly is soul destroying. How much more of his appalling treatment are you prepared to take?