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Need to let off steam, thought it might help to moan on here?

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ThomCat · 06/11/2005 11:20

He went out at 11.30pm Friday night to a bar/party, got in a 3am ish, woke me up, not on purpose though, then snored. Lottie woke at 4am, settled her back down, didn't really go back to sleep then l up at 6.30ish, got up, took her out till midday. Came in and D just getting up.

Got soem more of the nursery done, he bought his decks downstairs etc. Then we went out for his dad's birthday.
After a huge dinner, about 9.30pm I felt really shattered and uncomfortable, baby twisting & turning on a full stomach etc so went upstair and lay down in bed with L. D came up, checked I was ok and I said, 'it's cool, we don't need to rush off, stay as long as you want'. I woke up and thought where is he, what's going on and he finally came up to wake me to go home at 1am. Hmmmm, shouldn't have said stay as long as you want.

He then fell asleep in bed with L when we got home as she'd woken up and needed to be settled back. I took a while to get back to sleep, went off about 2.30am and then in the morning L came in to me at 6.15am. D's turn to sort her out, brekkie etc. He finally got up at 9am to get her breakfast, then came back to bed, fell asleep snoring with a hangover and is still there now, while I have got L dre4ssed and am just up & around for her.

I just think that he's being really selfish, lazy and irritating. I'm hormonal and tired so not sure how much of my feeling annoyed is down to my hormones and how much is down to me just being plain pissed off with him. My eyes and stinging in their sockets and I want to go up there and wack a pillow round his head!

Hmmmmm, do I feel better after that or not?

Think the answer is not!

Ahhh well, happy Sunday's.

OP posts:
soapbox · 06/11/2005 11:26

Thomcat - my experience of this is rather limited as DH tends to get up with ours more at the weekend, but now they are older they don't get up very early anyway.

I'm not sure that many men would get the message about helping up unless you are very explicit about what you expect!

I would sit down with him and tell him exactly why you are pissed off and what you expect him to do about it!

Perhaps he is worried that when the baby arrives his social life will be curtailed for a while and so is desperate to get it all in now while he can

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