Married to DH for 11 years 3 kids.
DH is hard working and adores us all.
Unfortunately, he is irratating and annoying the hell out of me.
I love him, like a brother not a lover anymore.
He tells me 100 times a day how much he loves and fancies me, he's always touching me intimately but continuously looks for meaning in the things I say or how I physically demonstrate my affections. He lacks emotional confidence.
He smokes marajuana gives up on occasion but always falls off the wagon.
Lately he talks over me, accuses me of stuff, but does not give me the opportunity to speak.
We don't row often but last night had a blazing row, he left slamming the front door.
Cue crying from upstairs, my son had heard us rowing and was destressed by it, said it sounded like we were gonna 'have a divorce'.
It broke my heart.
So as DH is niether evil, nor nasty and provides for us, do/would you fake the happy contented wife for the sake of ALL your family?