Can't forgive my boyfriend

[Helena92]

My boyfriend is rarely interested in porn so I was suprised to find that he'd been on the website for the magazine 'zoo' in the past week. Normally I would of forgiven him but I can't help feeling insecure that he is now looking at these attractive half naked women so soon after I have had a baby. We have a three week old son so I am still a little bit bigger than I was and have a few stretch marks and obv haven't been feeling up to having sex with him. What makes it worse is that he had been not coming to bed with me and was instead up looking at images on the internet and was stroppy when he had to come off the computer to make up feeds for our son. What makes me more hurt is that he was doing this on our three year anniversary. I don't know if I'm overreacting and sorry if this is to much information I just wanted someone elses opinion on the situation. Thanks :)

zoo???

only zoo?

Am I overreacting? Lol

this is about your self confidence. You have to tell him how gorgous you are - no shit. i tell dh he's a lucky bastard every day.

and whilst dh can appreciate some good looking girls on the telly - i can too.

i don't let him forget that i am a sexual being - and that i have choices. i'm not some trapped little women with a life of drudgery. i am a smart attractive woman and im with dh becuase i love him not becuase i'm trapped - so he had better not test the relationship, becuase as beyonce - relationship guru and poet says " don't every get to thinking your irriplaceable - i could have another you in a minute..."

hold your head high - as soon as you think your all THAT, he will too.

Custy - well said

I recognise that feeling with H and he was being a prick, but hopefully in your case it just the wobbles that happen when everyone is tired. Do you think you are overreacting, or is there more?

Thanks :) I think being pregnant knocked my confidence. I'm 18 and am trying to get used to my body post pregnancy. Thanks for your advice. He is god damn lucky and I'm going to make sure he appreciates that :). And I was just wondering how you would react if your dh did this? I have talked to mine about it but we just end up arguing. He tells me he is sorry but it doesn't make me feel any better. I'm starting to question how I really feel about him and think that maybe I have felt like this for a while and have only just realised.