Dp moved out, we were still meant to be seeing each other but not living together, in a bid to save what we had, as I had a lot of issues with him leaving everything at his arse and expecting me to pick up the slack, that with sex life being virtually non existant and him generally not taking part in family life unless he felt like it. So a lot of resentment from me!
We lived together for 5 years.
We used to always have a couple of drinks on a friday night, get some music on and have a laugh. This has not happened since he moved out, he refuses to have a drink with me unless me and ds go to his place (happened once and thats only if he has nothing better to do), I know alcohol is not giving the best example, but were very limited due to lack of babysitters.
If he comes to visit, im lucky if he's in for a half hour then itching to get away again and generally we really don't have much to talk about. He tends to come to see ds and then leave or will take ds out somewhere then drop him off then leave. Never really any 'us' time.
He's just called there and asked about my day, I was telling him about being at an induction for a new job im starting soon and he cut me off half way through and said he had to go and would pop up later (only because he has my phone charger and I really need it).
I just feel there's nothing left between us, sex life hasn't improved, communication is worse than it was before, I think 'd'p really just hasn't ended it out of a sense of duty and of course we are close to each others families etc.
Im not sure if im looking for advice or just clarify my thoughts with some feedback!