ttc but have crush on guy at work

[strawberrytwist]

I have been with DH for 5 years and we are currently ttc our first child.
But I have what I would call an infatuation with a man I work with.

Nothing physical has ever happened between us but he said to me a long time ago when we had been drinking together socially that it was a shame I'm married and is very flirty with me.

I know this is dangerous and I have recently been trying to keep my distance from him when I can but it isn't always possible.

Does this necessarily mean there is something wrong with my marriage because I am attracted to this man? Or does everyone have crushes? And is it ok as long as you don't act on it?

I'm pretty sure nothing will happen but I can't stop thinking about him.

By the way I do not socialise with him anymore and we have no contact with each other outside of work now.

I am in same position so I cant really help. I cant say I am happy in my marriage but since the crush began I am miserable

Really?

Come on, everyone has crushes from time to time. Work is a common place because we spend so much time there. It's completely normal.