Temper

[wine00]

Dp is generally ok but every so often he loses his temper. Not in a violent way but its getting me and dc down a bit. How do i get him to see he has a problem?

Hi wine
Try reading the "temper flares" thread it has a lot of discussion on the topic. As a recovering tantrum thrower I would say you should have a zero tolerance policy. Spell it out to him that his behaviour is unacceptable and you won't put up with it. You could tell him that he needs to address his anger and if he is not prepared to then you will have to consider your future together. You don't want your DC to learn bad behaviour from him or be damaged by his tantrums.
I bet he doesnt do it with his boss or with visitors, just with you and the dc.
That means it is within his control and he is indulging himself.
Get tough, take a stand and mean it. You will be doing him a favour!