I am letting off steam. on the whole dh is fab. but today not so.
I am self-employed and work at home. dh works 2 days/week away and the other days he is at home and just has to keep an eye on email. I have mentioned several times recently that I have a lot on and that I need to use my working days (which includes at least 2 of the 3 days he is at home) fully.
today? dh is off out for the day - not back til late. fil is arriving about 1. dds need picking up at 3. piles of washing need doing for going on holiday on saturday 4 am. cat needs picking up from the vet. dog needs walking. so what should be a normal working day for me has shrunk. dh says fil will happily pretty much do all of that (probably not the washing though!) but I just feel all grrrrrrrrr.
the bottom line though is that I don't "need" to work. I enjoy it and I chose to do it (for not much money. some, but not much)
and he wonders why I want to return to office working in a job where I might get a half-decent salary.
in his defence he did take the cat to the vets, take the dog for a walk, take a load of junk to the charity shop, get a few things from the supermarket, empty and fill the dishwasher and go to the bank to sort out something for both of us. maybe I can't whinge. especially not on mn when I should be working 
. oh feckle sticks. I wonder what time of the month it is.