Reluctant fathers after divorce

[Mrytle]

Can anyone help me with where I get advice on how to formalise a very " flexible " access arrangement with a reluctant father. there seems to be help for fathers desperate to see their children but none for mothers who are desperate for fathers to do their fair share.

No advice Im afraid but wanted to say my exh is the same. Moved 200 miles away and comes up every 5 - 6 weeks to see our dd (6) for one day. He arrives at 11 and leaves at 4pm. If asked to stay an extra hour he throws a hissy fit so I don't bother asking now.

The only thing I can say is try not to let it worry you. You can't make him behave as you want him to or as he should and its better to learn that lesson early on. Concentrate on your dc and let him do what he wants, its his loss in the end.

Sorry can't be more constructive, hopefully someone will be along soon who can be