My 8 year old son has played for a football team for the last two years. I've had a strong crush on one of the dads for quite a while. We're both married. I'm not proud of my feelings and I wouldn't act on them. However, I would like to figure out what he thinks of me. We also both take our kids to the same swimming lessons and when I meet him there he is very friendly. However, when I see him at the football, he can sometimes completely ignore me. Two nights ago at swimming we had a really good chat and I felt we were becoming good friends. However, tonight when we picked up the kids from footy he completely blanked me and chose to speak to other parents. I don't know why he couldn't even say hello to me. He's been doing that kind of thing for quite a while. It used to bother me but recently I've started to wonder if he doesn't want to talk to me in front of other mutual friends because he has feelings too. There have been quite a few times I've caught him looking at me. Also, this is hard to explain, the looks in his eyes when he sees me makes me feel he is attracted to me. He also asks me lots of questions about my personal life which makes me feel he wants to know me better.
I promise, I would never act on these feelings. I would just like to understand what he thinks of me.I would really like to know why he is very friendly when we are alone but cold when we are with other people. I like him a lot as a person and would be happy with friendship but this on and off things is bugging me.