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What a mug I am....

16 replies

landofoz · 07/04/2011 21:50

Having been seperated for a couple of years now and not one to fall for guys easily. Why is that when I do it is the same type?

Went out to meet some friends ending up bumping into some one I new long time ago now, we had a very good night he was very funny which I really needed. Had a bit of a crazy night which again was well over due as don't get out much as two young children.

Any way didn't think would hear from him but he called monday morn all good both agreed we should hook up again. So I text him end of week to see if he wanted to go out sometime again positive response he said yes that would be good so I then text him back to say give me some dates he free as tings quite hetic for me... that was over a week ago now and not heard from him. So feeling quite silly now thinking and letting myself like this guy.... I really wish they wouldn't say things they don't mean and I cant believe I fell for it again...

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deste · 07/04/2011 22:15

Dont feel silly, If he wants to go out with you he will get back to you but dont wait for him. Just get on with your life.

PeterAndreForPM · 07/04/2011 22:18

You had a good time, yes ?

Chalk it up

Don't contact him again, see if he contacts you

if yes, all good

if not, you had a good time

End of

There are 3 billion men in the world

there will be another one along soon

landofoz · 08/04/2011 05:47

deste and peterandre thanks for your replies you are both right. Feel better now... onwards and upwards have a great day.xxx.

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landofoz · 08/04/2011 06:08

deste and peterandre thanks for your replies you are both right. Feel better now... onwards and upwards have a great day.xxx.

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PeterAndreForPM · 08/04/2011 07:05

ah, glad you are feeling brighter today

enjoy the sunshine !

HerHissyness · 08/04/2011 14:57

"There are 3 billion men in the world"

Jesus! THAT many? That's an almighty INFESTATION. I could think of quite a few that are surplus to requirements..... can we have them 'erased'?

PeterAndreForPM · 08/04/2011 17:21

now now, HerHissyMajestyNess

a large proportion of men are ok, some are fab and some are shit

IMO

Grin
Deliainthemaking · 08/04/2011 17:26

think of it as his loss

HerHissyness · 08/04/2011 22:22

Ah, come ON though, we could leave, say 500 million... for taking out the bins, reaching to high shelves, washing cars etc,

but just think

2.5 billion less of them cluttering up the place, leaving the seat up, watching football, driving their Imprenzas with the noisy exhausts, walking about town with their shirts off..

HerHissyness · 08/04/2011 22:22

Course it'd put the Relationships Board pretty much out of business.. Hmm

landofoz · 10/04/2011 21:44

ya his loss just dam annoying!!! But why do you think guys say all that stuff anyway???

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HerHissyness · 10/04/2011 21:48

They say it to waste oxygen tbh, there is no possible plausible explanation otherwise!

Truth: they say it to keep their options open.

You are worth more. You will find someone that will WANT to see you, will text and ask you out, and make sure he is available for you. Don't put up with these shitty timewasters.

landofoz · 10/04/2011 21:55

thanks... im new to all this dating stuff was with my ex very long time and since we split 2 years ago not even been interested in seeing anyone it has only been recently I started thinking about meeting some one else. so it was a bit weired feeling all these emotions again of liking some one even if he was a shitty time waster!!

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JeffTracy · 11/04/2011 10:03

Txts do sometimes get lost... I had a "heated discussion" with DP one time when she txt-d me about something important. Needless to say the txt didn't reach me and wires got crossed and much bad feeling on both sides resulted.

At least with a phone call you know the other person got the message...

YouaretooniceNOT · 12/04/2011 11:48

it would have to be a bloody good reason for me to even reply to his text if i was in that position. Be good if he does text then ignore him. Forever.

landofoz · 12/04/2011 22:53

youaretoniceNOT....thankyou yes I will ignore!!!!

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