hi everyone i am new to mums net so plz be kind - i am in a relationship which is on bad terms at the moment we argue constantly over silly things and i think it is affecting the kids as my son who is seven keeps getting in trouble at school and i feel that i have fallen out of love with my partner but he is refusing to move out because i think we need a break but he keeps involving the kids by saying to the kids do u want me to move out? the kids love their dad therefore they always say no but the arguments are getting worse i am worried of finances too as i own our home but my partner works so pays the morgage and uses that against me when i say we should separet
he says i will not be able to cope finacially if he goes but i am so unhappy and just want out of ths relationship i do not have any family members to talk about this. am i being unreasonable asking him to move out because he says he loves me but i dont feel the same we have a lot of debt too so i am not sure i will be able to cope finacially if he leaves as i have four kids please help me decide on what to do ? thank u