AIBU to have walked out of my house?

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After DP called me a F*ing P**ck in front of my 3 year old son?

You really need to ask? Hope you took your ds with you.

I am not sure.
Why did you not take your child with you?
Should you not asked dp to leave?

YANBU. Go for a nice walk and let him cool off. Does he speak to you like this often? If he does you need get something sorted asap, either Relate if you want to work things or leave if you don't. The last you want is for your son to grow up thinking this is normal.

If it's just a one off give him a good talking to when he calmed down and see how he reacts from there.

Thought so, just wanted to make sure i hadnt gone OTT, Yes I took him with me, and yes hes fine, playing at nannies.

there must be more to this story than this, elaborate OP

Erm...this is relationships, not AIBU.

um well, there isnt really, we had spent the day in stratford come home, after he picked up my new laptop i commented that since i had it i havent actually been on it, its a stupid story, he has his own laptop which he never let me use an now i have a better one he says his is too slow an i can use it whilst he is on mine. Dont think it warrents that kind of language?

i know sweetgilly but it is about my relationship, an AIBU, thanks for pointing that out to me though :)

I disagree and think it warrants exactly that kind of language, but from you to him!

He didnt want to share when he had a nice toy, but now you have a nicer toy he wants that one and you get his old one? Tell him to get fucked!

Is he normally this nasty and selfish?

does he think he has ownership of you then??

Crikey does he often talk to you like this? With the weird behaviour about the new/old laptop he seems really childish

I think he has always been like it, but i made allowences an excuses for his behaviour, I understand in arguements sometimes things get said, but when there is no row, an a child is in the same room? Im gettin annoyed with myself now, as its my bloody house!!

is your ds his?

If my DH had tried anything like that on with me, it's him that would be out the door.

No hes not, which makes it seem even worse to me. Not only was there my ds but dp's own son whos 10. I dont not what he thinks gives him the right to talk to me in that way, i wouldnt let someone in the street or one of my friends do it, an i certainly wouldnt speak to hm like it

Well don't stand for it then. Tell him that unless his attitude improves he is not welcome in your home.

Your p seems to take a lot of things for granted, your laptop, your home, you, if he behaves like this, and speak like this to you in front of children.

Does he have any redeeming qualities at all?

Go back there ask him to give you your laptop and put a password on it!

Tell him never to talk to you again like that, if he starts arguing ask him to leave your house.

Stand up for yourself. You say you wouldn't let any one else why are you letting him? he won't hesitate to do it again if you don't tell him plain and simple it is unacceptable.

Did he 'buy' it for you because he wanted a better one and couldn't justify it or did you buy it?

Of course you are a free woman to walk out of your own house!

A breath of fresh air, get out of the rut, round to a friends, whatever!

If your husband is regularly being (verbally or whatever) abusive to you and scaring your son, don't leave him there

By the way, name-calling the mother of your child and other abuse is setting him up to repeat the pattern