Should probably be in AIBU but am too scared! We have been very busy doing renovations to our house, so much so that every Saturday / Sunday has been taken up for as far back as I can bloody remember. I got vouchers which we could use for a family day out (me, DH and the two kids), but we haven't had a chance so far (every weekend DH says he is too busy at the house). Last Sunday was my birthday, I thought maybe we would be able to go, but "D"H said he hadn't time. Still fine with this. Last night he went to his hobby and when he returned he told me they asked for volunteers for this Sunday to help with something, and was just running it past me to see if I would be ok with it. I sort of threw my toys out of the cot as they say, and said if he hadn't time to spend a day with us, then I couldn't see how he had time to spend it there. AND its Mothers day {sulks a bit more just for the fun of it}.
He will try bargaining with me today and tomorrow - "we will go next weekend instead" (I know we won't when the time comes). I know I can't TELL him not to go, but I will be pretty insulted if he does, and WIBU to let him know this? I feel guilty now (and I am sure he doesn't) and very unreasonable.