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I have a crush on my DPs friend....

27 replies

Butternutsquash22 · 27/03/2011 17:45

and I hate myself for it, but cant just turn it off.

It started out just harmless flirting, im flirty anyway, and am so with all of his friends, but with him there and never would be if he wasnt. He knows I'm a little bit of an attention seeker and a bit insecure so attention is nice. this would be fine but the problem is there's chemistry with this guy. And I think he likes me too.... DPs other friends joke about the fact that he likes me, but they obv dont know that I kinda like him too...

I would never do anything about my feelings, would never act on them, but I like his company because of the excitment from the chemistry. for example, I quite often go on nights out with DP and his friends, and me and this guy always end up walking home together a wee bit in front of the others, just chatting, but obviosuly we have both singled out eachother, intentionally or not.

the thing that has made me feel seriously guilty is the other week DPs friends were all round, and drinking, and me and this guy were holding hands onder a blanket. Blush We talk on facebook chat quite a lot as well, nothing is ever said about anything more than just friends, but its obvious that its there.

I know I should just avoid this guy until I get over my feelings, but its so hard, because DPs are my friends IYKWIM? so avoiding him would mean losing my social life, (and the selfish attention seeker in me doesnt want to lose the thrill..)

Help me, what do I do??

OP posts:
dollyshouse · 27/03/2011 22:01

You are not ready to settle down is what this is all telling you, I met my first serious BF at 17, engaged at 19 and at 20 I was going out getting chatted up and loving it and tempted to go further so I finished it just before I was 21 and a few months before the wedding, best thing I ever did, I had lots of fun and met my husband much later on when I was ready to settle down, better to be honest now instead of hurting him further down the line by cheating, which you will even if it's not with this one you have a crush on, you are too young to settle down if you are feeling this way trust me x enjoy life while you can doesn't have to be all serious x

tadpoles · 27/03/2011 22:02

Your are probably not ready to get married. No big deal. Just don't get married yet. If you do, this kind of thing will happen again quite soon. So - you aren't ready, in my opinion. What the hell! Why not have some fun in the meantime.

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