Just had a massive arguement

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Same shit going round and round.

I'd folded all the laundry on the bed and he threw it all over the floor to piss me off...I've just had enough of him really. Sometimes I love him, but he makes me feel like I'm a disappointing wife sometimes and the most perfect person at other times. I just can't handle the extremes any more, it used to be exciting but now I just think it's pathetic.

Is this normal marriage? We're ttc number one which I know is stressful.

No, it isn't normal

If anyone wrecked my tasks like that, I would tell them to fuck the fuck off

Who does he think he is ?

Unless you do similar things of course. Do you ?

No, it isn't normal and I think you should stop TTC while you are having the same old arguments over and over again.

What did you row about?

BTW TTC should be fun and exciting unless of course you have been trying for years and even then it doesn't have to be stressful.

I don't wreck stuff like that, but that doesn't mean that I'm not annoying in other ways.

He sounds childish and horrid. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Do you think he will make a good parent?

Are you sure you're doing the right thing ttc with some-one who disrespects your work like that?

You will create a link with him that will last for the rest of your lives.

I'm not married but that is definitely not normal. That's how a small child might behave, now a grown man. Was this unprovoked? Not that it would be justified either way.

I'm sorry but I would not be trying to have a baby with a man who behaves this way - no experience myself but I imagine newborn baby and sleep deprivation etc etc etc will be pretty stressful too!

Are you saying you both wind each other up ?

And then it escalates to petty clothes-throwing ?

In that case, I think you are both too immature to ttc a baby.

However tell us what it is you "do to annoy him". And who told you that you wind him up ? Him ?

Does he ever "accidentally" throw things in your direction, or shove you ?

for goodness sake stop trying to conceive.

Agree with others re stopping TTC. If you have been having same arguments time and again you need to look at these issues before you go any further. And speaking from experience, bringing a child into the equation will only bring all the problems into sharper focus. I suspect it will also make his childish sounding behaviour escalate as he will have even less of your attention.

Agree with island girl. A dc will make life worse unless your relationshipis strong