Name changed for obvious reasons.
I started a new job about 2 months ago. There is a guy who works there about 6 years younger than me who I have I suppose, been crushing on, for want of a better word. He isnt conventionally good looking but he is so similar to me, we get on outstandingly well, we have the same interests, humour etc.
I dont think he has any interest in me, our chats always seem slightly flirty but never overly so and tbh it could be in my head. We dont talk outside work or go out or anything. We have been on two work night outs but nothing ever happened or looked like it was going to.
I just want to get it out of my head. I have DP of 12 years and an adorable DS who is 5. I am happy with my life. But I fantasise about this colleague, not sexually as such but more what it would be like to be with him on a daily basis.
Its affecting me at work and to a lesser extent at home and I just want to know has anyone any experience of this and how do I get over it? I dont want to do anything with this guy, it is all fantasy I just want it to end!