I'm 5 months pg and working FT with 2 hr commute each way to work. DP stays at home with 2yo DD and I wfh 1 day a wk.
I am really struggling with my job and the amount of work I have and have spoken to HR to try and get some help as my boss seems disinterested. Not sure anything will actually happen, but at least I've tried. However, DP is constantly moody and angry at me and DD cos she's had enough of being SAHM in a town away from family and calls me a workaholic even though I have no option in this. We both chose to move here but now I'm getting the blame for taking her away from the security of her old life.
This morning, I'm wfh and DD was sent through to me for an hour so DP could lie-in in some peace (I assume as nothing was said) and then, once I'd started work, DD came through without a nappy on to tell me she'd done a poo. DP then shouted at her even though she's not nappy trained at all so it's not her fault if she's left to run around half naked. Have been trying to work listening to DD downstairs crying and I assume getting ignored or shouted at by DP. I told DP not to take it out on DD, but she just shouted back at me and said it was none of my business and I should get to being a workaholic. When she's angry, she can say some really hurtful things to me which I try to ignore as I know they come from anger, but the more frequent they get, the harder it's getting to ignore.
I just feel completely at my wits end seeing my DD suffer from DP's severe mood swings and her anger at me but can't afford not to work so have no options. I really don't know what to do anymore - I hate being at work and hate being at home, apart from when I'm with DD. I'm also very worried about the health of my unborn baby which must be getting affected by all this stress.
I know there are no answers, but guess I just needed to offload.