I am fed up to the back teeth of being the main orchestrator of for household logistics, the very high maintenance of two small children (9 months and three years)finances as well as holding down a job three days a week and although dh does contribute is little share I find that I am becoming extremely exasperated trying to hold the fort for all the family and it just seems so unfair and really don't think he understands how hard it is, although he says he does. Does anybody have any tactics on how I can change things to become more equally balanced. I honestly feel like packing my bags for a fortnight and letting him take the reins and being in the driving seat for once. Since ds was born he has had the two kids on his own for a maximum of 12 hours. Please help. Thank you.