Long story, but to keep it short. Ten years ago I had an affair, during that time, we split up got back together etc. Two years ago we both left our marriages and got together, not living together but dating etc. During those years we have also split up because he says he is scared of his now ex finding out it is me he is seeing and turning his daughter (6 years old) against him. He says he loves me and i love him. I know she will be angry, devistated that its me he is seeing - i know i wrecked her marriage but would she turn daughter against him and although we would never be friends could she accept that he is with me or am i just being to hopeful ? I know i was wrong in having an affair so feel free to say well what do you expect etc