cant get him out of my mind

[luvmykids11]

i have recently seperated from an abusive partner of 6yrs who treated me like dirt and in the end told me he never loved me.i was hurt hearbroken and felt realy low.ive made up my mind to concentrate on the kids and not allow any man in my life.To cut a long story short i fancy my mechanic and cant get him out of my mind.the way he communicate with me makes me feel special but i dont know if am his type or he may be in a relationship.ive been trying to avoid him by taking my car to a different mechanic but cant help it.what should i do?

Well if you mean what you said about concentrating on your kids then you have done the right thing. But if you have allowed time to heal from your last relationship and you are careful not to allow anyone into your kids lives too soon the there is no reason why you shouldnt have a boyfriend in future.

Why dont you just ask this guy if he is single? If he says no you smile and say "what a shame". If he says yes then you ask him if he wants a coffee sometime.
Simples!

thanks a lot

First of all, dont rush into a new relationship, its not fair on the bloke, your kids, and most of all, not fair on YOU. You wont be ready for it yet.

At the moment, every bloke who treats you nicely will seem attractive, because you have been treated so badly by someone and you are now free to love again. But take your time, it really is very easy end up embroiled in a new relationship before you have found your own feet properly and your freedom.

If he is single, by all means go out on a couple of dates if he is interested, but just be wary of rushing into anything that is too much too soon.

:)

thanks again.im avoiding him and hopefully this feelings will go away.