Have come out of a long marriage (12 years) will be divorced in a couple of weeks. But we've been apart a year now and troubles began six months before that. After an awful time last year am totally ready for a new relationship. And don't feel any relationship I have will be rebound as am totally over my ex. Met the most fantastic man early Jan. We got on like a house on fire, similar interest. The whole thing was totally intense But he is also coming out of a long marriage and about a week or so ago, I deduced he wasn't really ready to move forward and spoke to him about it he accepted that was the case and that was that.
But I miss him so much after knowing him only a short time. And I read that no contact is the best way to go - but why do we have to play these games? And is that the best way? Or do I move on. I know, I should just get on with my life. But his man just really got under my skin. :(