My husband left back in August, we had been married for almost 12 years, he just said he wasn't happy anymore. We have 2 children together aged 4 and 20 months. He has been renting his own flat and visiting the chidren 2-3 times a week at the family home. He had a younger female friend staying with him occasionally on the weekends, she is now out of the picture. We have been talking more lately. He isn't ready to come back but thinks he might like to work towards it. I would like to work towards it to. I have questions about his friend, but is it better not to ask them and just try to move on from where we are. I have told him that we both have to take things slow and be very sure this is what we both want, it wouldn't be fair to put the kids through him leaving a second time if things didn't work. I love him still but is that enough? Any advise welcome.