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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Middle Class Domestic Abuse...

11 replies

NurseryQ · 23/02/2011 23:43

...anyone experienced / experiencing this...? Manipulation / control / aggression / threats / put downs etc...just in case, you know, you weren't sure or thought it must be your fault.

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Alambil · 23/02/2011 23:50

eh?

Domestic abuse spans all classes, all creeds, all nationalities... it knows no bounds.

amiheartless · 23/02/2011 23:56

this sounds straight out of the DM

Hmm

the above e.g cover all classes, unless I'm mistaken and all lower class domestic violence cases involves being beaten over the head and dragged back to their primitive council house?

LittleMissHissyFit · 23/02/2011 23:57

WT???

Oh do I have to be poor/rich/somewhere in the middle to be abused now? Was there a memo? Could someone forward me a copy... Hmm

Or have i gone Up/Down a level due to Domestic Abuse

Who on earth do you think normally does it? Hmm

Have a look at the link above your thread title, the Domestic Violence Webguide and check out Woman's Aid. That site has more info than you can poke a stick at.

I'm sure if you look carefully, you will see that There R millions Of Life Lines out there.

HTH

TooJung · 23/02/2011 23:58

If you feel something isn't right, it most probably isn't. If you are questioning your own judgement, then something is going on, and it isn't good. Would a stranger in the street do these things to you?

fangbanger · 24/02/2011 00:01

are you nosuchthingassociety? OP?

Because that poster was posting similarly odd posts the other day

Alambil · 24/02/2011 00:03

"Any woman can experience domestic violence regardless of race, ethnic or religious group, class, disability or lifestyle. Domestic violence can also take place in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender relationships. Domestic violence can also be perpetrated by other family members (for example, extended family). In some cases, older children - teenagers or young adults - are violent or abusive towards their mothers or other family members"

from Women's Aid

DV is not about class. It's about power.

NurseryQ · 24/02/2011 00:16

Yeah, no kidding. Wasn't really the point.

But f* it

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fangbanger · 24/02/2011 00:18

ahh ok, apologies. I see what you were trying to do now.

BellaSwanCullen · 24/02/2011 01:14

Why add a link to eye wear? Nursery?

NicknameTaken · 24/02/2011 09:39

There is a book called "Not to people like us" - looks at US upper-middle classes, but you might find it helpful.

NurseryQ · 24/02/2011 19:10

Thanks NT.

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