I've changed my name for this as I feel a bit self conscious of the fact that dh and I just do not seem to have sex. Cant say I miss it much but whenever we do it is always great and we always say we should do it more often. Last time was when I was 4 months pregnant and baby is now several months old. it is a time factor mostly plus he works late on his laptop to ensure he can spend time with the children early evening. they wake at 6.30 am and are going strong until 7.30/8pm so we just dont seem to get the opportunity. It is certainly not that I dont fancy him or like sex - completely the opposite actually - I suppose I am a little worried about 'my bits' having had two deliveries in the last 3 years but my figure is ok. i do think I need compliments to make me feel a bit sexier and not like a frump but he probably feels that too.
have to say it does concern me and we have said jokingly that we wonder when we will ever do it again. OK be honest am I normal or are you all at it like rabbits!???