sounds like a stupid question - dh and I have not been getting on for a long time - have withdrawn into myself and I suppose he has too with both of us concentrating most of our energy and affection on the kids, but today we have been sniping at each other - feeling upset as bottom line I can't understand why he doesn't actually like me - sounds infantile, but it's just a difficult thing to get my head around as of course I live with myself and have no choice as to whether I like myself or not.... thinking that if we did separate I might actually never recover from the sheer fact of having been disliked so much that in the end we had to split...
can anybody relate?