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Why has my relationship changed?

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December20 · 13/02/2011 18:54

I Had my beautiful baby boy on 20th December, had a great pregnancy and labour,no problems. Christmas was kinda hetic but loved having him hear for it.
Reasontly though my relationship with my husband has changed, I just really can't be bothered with him at all, he is good with our son, and does his fair share, although he is away most weekends working, which is difficult. But I just don't seem to be interested in him at all, even a cuddle is a bind. Why do I feel this way, I know I still love him, I just can't be doing with the way i'm feeling. Some days i'm happy and some days I'm sad, ?? why, I have no reason to feel like this!!

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squeakytoy · 13/02/2011 18:59

I think its a very common thing so soon after the birth of your baby, and you can get through it. Your whole lives have changed for ever and it will take time to adjust.

You may also have a bit of PND, so it may be worth seeing your GP or talking to the Health Visitor.

textualhealing · 13/02/2011 18:59

It's only February - have you considered the possibility that you may have a touch of PND? Hope things improve for you but suggest you visit the doctors and discuss your feeling.

onehotmomma · 13/02/2011 19:09

I agree there is a good possibility it's PND but this also happened to me when I was on the contraceptive pill. Either way I would visit the docs :)

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