Can't do this much longer

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Background:
I do not live with my (D)P but see him 3/4 times a week. We have been together 5 years. We do not have DCs BTW

Mostly things are great between us but he is insainly difficult at times...(I am no angel but I find him contolling at times)

Last night I went out a staff do from Christmas...It was good but today he has been off with me, apparently I am acting wieird after last night . The argument always ends the same with him accusing me of cheating something I have never done.

Almost every time I go out without him he is funny the next day...

I don't want to finish it but it can't carry on WWYD?

My first OH was like this, bin him!! They never change....

Very familiar, an old boyfriend was like this with me. I was so in love with him. We would have a great night out, then the next day.....all sorts of accusations. Did my head in. It finished.
10 years later he still hasn't had another sucessful or long term relationship.
Get him to counselling or finih with him.

I can't see this getting better; only worse and more controlling.

walk.

sorry...that sounds a bit harsh.

Its just that, unless he sees that this is his problem and not yours, I can see him getting away from the belief that you might cheat or leave him for some one else.

So, it will just get worse.

he is an insecure weirdo

bail now before you get in any deeper

ffs, don't ever get pg by him

How much do you want this relationship to work? If you really do and think he is/could be the one, go to counselling to address his insecurity and jealousy. If not, walk away before you get in deeper as it will continue to drive a bigger wedge between you and you will continue to feel more and more controlled.

I had this happen with a guy I was with at 18 years old.
He started picking me up from college, taking me to work (I lived 5 mins walk away), sitting in the car park waiting for me to finish ( I worked for 3 hours a night)

I ended it after I heard he enquired into enrolling in the college to be near me.

If you stay with him, sooner or later you'll stop going out so that you avoid his accusations. But they won't stop. He'll question you about work, family friends, exes etc. End it now, it's no way to live.

And be very glad that you do not live or have DCs with him.