cheating dh can I..?

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find out who he is cheating with from a v dodgy e-mail address? (hers)

try to google the email address or her name and see what comes up.

Are you on Facebook? Copy and paste it into the facebook search. If she is on facebook with that email it will give you her name.

It'll be spam fgs. Why would you want people to google that and click through, leads to dodgy sites does it [ hmm]

what is this about ?

J9Zingg

Anything that apparently comes from an email addy like this will be spam of some sort: it's like that to try to avoid spam filters. I get stuff like that all the time as I've had my email addy for many years and no douibt it's on all sorts of lists by now.

What did the email you found actually say?

sorry if I did inappropriate post - maybe that means I am right and it is someone he has picked up off internet 'dating' site. She doesn't put her name in her mails. I found one arranging for him to pick her up, 'honey', darling xxxx, can't be long at your flat as have to be home by 6.30 etc Have found him on dating websites in the past. Ther is a long history here btw, including large debts he lied about which eventually had to go on our mortgage. In short we are now divorcing but he refuses to leave the house until he has his share of the equity in the house. Despite having DS, 9 he thinks he can stay untila settlement is reached. He is not funding joint account for bills / food etc any more as he has no money (self employed). I am trying to raise increased mortgage to buy him out. He has no money so won't move until he gets the money from the house, is prepared for it to be sold and wait that out. Actually who she is / what that is about is kind of irrelevant, I just wondered as he is now getting v nasty (verbal), that I might be able to use it if necessary. Situation is dire, DS hasn't been told yet, but obvious things are v not right and he needs to know v soon. Despite this and the fact we have been advised ( I had to get him to agree to see someone about this) it will be damaging to DS if he continues to stay DH still saying he won't leave until everything legally agreed. Basically putting himself in front of his childs well being. He has said if house sale necessary to get his money, tough and we could rent if I can't raise a mortgage (can afford it but contractor so its a bit complex with my employment history etc. Tho I do have v gd credit rating etc. He is up to eyes in debt again and has taxman etc after him

bump. anyone there?

He can legally stay in the house until you are divorced, unless he has been violent to you. I don't think being verbally unkind counts.

So you're not divorcing over this but something else? Are you sure the email address wasn't spam?