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If I ask DH to leave what would happen?

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teenyweenytadpole · 11/02/2011 22:19

Complicated situation. In a nutshell, I work 3 days a week, don't earn a lot, 500 a month ish. DH currently on jobseekers. We get tax credits etc and are basically managing on a mix of that, my salary, some savings, and fresh air. If I asked him to leave, would I get any more money? I could increase my hours a week but would still not earn a huge amount. We are in a privately rented house and I would hate to have to move the DD's but our rent is quite high, would we be forced to move somewhere cheaper? Realistically he could not pay maintenance, but I am assuming that the loss of the jobseekers he gets would be taken into account if you see what I mean? We do have some capital but it is all tied up in pension type accounts, not actual cash. Might go to see Citizens advice but was just wondering....thanks.

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HecateQueenOfWitches · 11/02/2011 22:21

so you are splitting up with your husband? sorry about that.

go to entitledto.com and see what you would be, well, entitled to.

teenyweenytadpole · 11/02/2011 22:25

Thanks Hecate, not decided yet but thinking about what ifs! Long story, but at 43 I feel completely and utterly alone and bereft, absolutely nothing in our current situation seems to be working.

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GypsyMoth · 11/02/2011 22:27

where would he go?

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